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On Aug. Larry Craig outside a Minneapolis airport bathroom on a misdemeanor charge of dl chat rooms conduct. The officer was investigating complaints of "lewd conduct" in the public bathroom, and the police report says the Idaho senator gave a series of als that the plainclothes officer interpreted as sexual advances.

Craig pleaded guilty to the charge last dl chat rooms, though he now says he is innocent and made a mistake in admitting guilt.

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The officer's report is printed at right, verbatim. Decide for yourself what to make of it. Subsequent discussion of the arrest has involved questions about the closeted gay subculture of anonymous sexual encounters in public locations.

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In AugustBenoit Denizet-Lewis wrote in Slate about the "Down Low," the expression black men use to describe their underground homosexual activities, and closeted white men's growing appropriation of that phrase. The article is reproduced below.

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Three years ago, I wrote a story about black men who have sex with men but don't identify as gay - or even, in many cases, as bisexual. Some of the Down Low guys I met were married but had covert sex with men, while others who claimed the label only had sex with men but considered themselves much too masculine to be gay. Most equated gayness with effeminacy - and, to a lesser extent, whiteness. From their perspective, to be an effeminate black man is to not really be a black man at all. The Down Low was a relatively new response to a very old behavior.

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Men of all races have long had secret sexual and romantic male relationships, complete with the usual accessories of a double life: lies, deception and shame. But the Down Low was a uniquely African-American creation. If the closet is a stifling, lonely place for white guys who realize they're gay but aren't ready to admit it publicly, the Down Low is a VIP party for "masculine" black men who will never admit to being homosexual - because they don't see themselves that way.

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And while men on the DL certainly have their share of shame, among themselves it masquerades as bravado and sexual freedom: They're the ultimate pimps and players, man enough to do their girlfriend on Thursday and do their best friend, Mike, on Friday. And untilmost black women didn't have a clue.

But then I wrote my story, J. The Down Low quickly ceased to be, well, on the down low.

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And now, in a sure of the DL's cultural currency, white boys - apparently unsatisfied with having co-opted hip-hop - are claiming to be on the "Down Low," too. I knew nothing of this until two months ago, when I met my first white guy who dl chat rooms to be "on the DL. I met him at a New York City gay club he had made the trek from Long Islandand I'm embarrassed to say that we sort of hit it off. On the first of a few dates, I asked him where he worked - and whether people there knew he was gay. I wasn't sure I believed him, so a few days later I went searching on Craigslist, and, sure enough, I found dozens of from white men claiming to be on the Down Low.

In Boston, where I live, I saw an ad for a year-old "slightly stocky, hairy and kinky bi married white guy on the down low.

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In the San Francisco Bay Area, a year-old "white boy on the down low" posted that he was looking to "chill with the same. Interestingly, white guys also use the expression as an adjective - as in, "I have a down-low place" to hook up.

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By far the most common usage, though, is some variation of, "We need to keep this on the Down Low," meaning that if you happen to bump into your hookup around town, you won't bear hug him and shriek, "Bro, last night was awesome! It's an alluring term for men who identify as butch or masculine. The closet has a certain shame and weakness attached to it. The Down Low sounds more powerful, more empowering.

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It also sounds like a secret group, or club. Maybe so, but white guys claiming to be on the DL is a little like two straight roommates pretending to be domestic partners so they can save on health insurance. While white guys want the perceived benefits of being on the Down Low being seen as cool, tough and masculinethey certainly don't want the unenviable choices facing many black men attracted to other men.

For all their supposed freedom and masculine power and independence, black men on Down Low are stuck: "Come dl chat rooms as anything other than heterosexual and suddenly they're a double minority, likely to be ostracized by their friends, family and church. Black men still have less economic mobility than whites, making their community connections all the more critical. Don't come out and live a secretive, dishonest, dl chat rooms - but, in some ways, safer - life on the DL. It might hurt you some, but it's not like if you're black and gay, because then it's like you've let down the whole black community, black women, black history, black pride.

I dl chat rooms Rakeem recently to ask him what he thought about white guys claiming to be on the Down Low. I say, let's retire the Down Low. It should be extinct, like a dinosaur. It'sand people need to free themselves.

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